average & extraordinary

Being independent doesn't always mean you mean you make your own decisions. But being confident about yourself. I dont know if I can say that I am independent. Because I need my friends around to tell me advices. Though I is also a good things. I make my own foundation. The bigger is a tree's root the stronger it is.



I somehow always disliked people who has been in under the protection of parents. They will never know how it feels like to fight for something really hard. Our character is developed by our life and flaws and all the mistakes we ever done before. Nobody is looking for a pretty body with no character and personality. When we become mature we set up our own standards and become those people who are being followed by others.

Though once we had an independent lifestyle it is pretty hard to give up on it and go back to school. But why would I go back to school? Definitely not because I have to. But because I can and I want to. And then be damn proud of it.

We know what we expect from life and we might have the luck that we found someone who is worth fighting for.
No matter what friends or family say. If I had feelings for someone and I believed we could build up something from scratch I would go for it. Being in love means you rather cry the whole day than go out with someone else and have a good time. You will never know how much someone means to you till you risk to lose.
Being with someone doesn't always mean you constantly talk. It means you get comfort even just to be in the same place. Is he playing video games while you read a book in the other corner of the room? But still you enjoy every single second of his company.

I believe the more traditions you have the stronger the relationship is. For example. Must have a date day when you actually pay attention to each other. Go for a walk or watch a movie with popcorn. Or go out and have a dinner or go to party. Or go for a trip for a couple of days. All the people who are having a long term relationship are living a very busy life. But they have their own traditions and that is what keeps the fire on and make you fall in love again and again and again.

While we are youngs we wanna do a lot of things in the same time. Wanna be in every possible role and give our best in everything. And the younger we start experiencing the sooner we know who we actually are. And once we know who we are, all we wanna be a good mother, a perfect wife and a successful woman.
If you dont try hard pursuing your dream then you can't expect success.
We might dont wanna have a "good enough" job. If you dont think it is a job then that is a career. And if you do it with a passion. That is success.